I could have a stable 9 to 5 if I wanted; a k; I could not live in a trap house; I could do a lot of things. I thought I had found it once, love, but it was just some silly dream I had. At 35, Rob has a new outlook on life. It makes sense, right? But Grindr and all the others, at the end of the day, are just apps and we have the autonomy to use them any way we choose. You start to settle, to give up on your dreams, in effect giving up on life. While somethings can be a fun time and quell feelings of boredom, isolation and loneliness, they are merely a band aid, a bridge, a pain killer to be used as directed.
Somehow I get the impression that none of them were a good fit considering dude has a hole in his soul no dick could fill.
The ages that define a man's life
I don't have much to say here so I'll just let the music do the talking. We have let so many opportunities go because we are waiting for the other guy to make the first move. Your attempts to try and motivate your partner will be misconstrued as attempts to try and change or control them. Let's face it; we don't have the time to settle for foolishness the way we may have in our 20s. After a while, I have to ask myself:
They fail to realize the vibratory frequency that ricochets off the object of their contempt and boomerangs back to them. It could have been a lot worse. Sure they breed cowardice, exacerbate racism and internal homophobia, further complicate making genuine connections, and also spread rudeness like the plague. In fact I had to constantly complain about him not listening to me which only drove a wedge between our commitment to communicate our needs openly to one another. After a while, I have to ask myself: But in understanding that I began to understand my identity as an American, which I never truly identified with. Basically you are looking for anything but a real and lasting future with someone halfway decent.